Over time, a commitment to challenging, focused work and leisure produces not only better daily experience, but also a more complex, interesting person: the long-range benefit of the focused life. As Hobbs put it, the secret of fulfillment is "to choose trouble for oneself in the direction of what one would like to become. Winifred Gallagher
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The idea of a long-range benefit is to choose to be happy now with the promise of greater happiness in the future. The idea of a focused life is to choose to do exactly what you want and hang out with the people you like. Both of these ideas are mutually exclusive and can be difficult to achieve simultaneously. The idea of a focused life suggests that we should not enjoy our company; we should not engage in activities that we enjoy, or we will be wasting our time. But, as Nelson Mandela said, “The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” If you promise yourself that you will always move forward no matter what; if you make your happiness dependent on your doing something worthwhile, then someday, your life will be a success.

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